Love on the Spectrum: Dating for Autistic Singles

If watching autistic people date on TV made you wonder where to start, this is one place to start.

DisabilityMatch is a disability dating site that welcomes autistic and neurodivergent singles. It is not connected with any TV programme; it is simply a place where being on the spectrum is understood from the first message.

Where autistic singles meet

Some people use mainstream apps and manage disclosure themselves. Others prefer a community where neurodivergent conditions are expected. Many use both. Read disabled dating: mainstream apps or a specialist site to weigh it up.

What DisabilityMatch offers

Safety and verification

ID verification is free. You add a clear photo of yourself and a government photo ID, the admin team matches the two, and your profile shows a Blue Tick. Your real name and email address are never shown publicly, other members only see an approximate distance, and the support team is available 24 hours a day. More on the safety page.

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Frequently asked questions

Is DisabilityMatch connected to the TV show?
No. DisabilityMatch is an independent disability dating site. It welcomes autistic and neurodivergent singles.
Is DisabilityMatch free?
Yes. Classic membership is free with no expiry: create a profile, browse members, get daily match suggestions and reply to VIP members. VIP adds unlimited messaging and costs £24.95 a month; current prices are on the pricing page.
How do I know profiles are real?
ID verification is free for every member. Verified profiles carry a Blue Tick, content is screened by automated systems and human moderators before it goes up, and you can block or report any member from their profile.
Can I meet other autistic people here?
Yes. Neurodivergent conditions such as autism and ADHD are part of the DisabilityMatch community.
Can people without a disability join?
Yes. DisabilityMatch is for disabled singles of every kind, visible and invisible, and for the people who want to date them with respect.

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