Asperger's Dating on DisabilityMatch

A dating site where Asperger's and autism are understood, so first messages can be about you rather than an explanation.

DisabilityMatch welcomes singles with Asperger's syndrome and autism, alongside every other disability type and long-term health condition. Neurodivergent conditions are part of the community, so you do not have to explain yourself before getting to know someone.

Asperger's and autism

Asperger's syndrome is no longer diagnosed as a separate condition, but many people still describe themselves that way. Use whichever word fits you.

Dating at your own pace

Safety and verification

ID verification is free. You add a clear photo of yourself and a government photo ID, the admin team matches the two, and your profile shows a Blue Tick. Your real name and email address are never shown publicly, other members only see an approximate distance, and the support team is available 24 hours a day. More on the safety page.

What it costs

Joining is free on the Classic membership: you can create a full profile, browse members, get daily match suggestions, use limited messaging and reply to VIP members. VIP, which adds unlimited messaging, advanced search filters and seeing who likes you, is £24.95 a month (current prices are on the pricing page).

Before you start

Read how to write a disability dating profile and what to say on dating apps, and see how DisabilityMatch compares with other sites on our comparisons page.

Frequently asked questions

Is there a dating site for people with Asperger's?
Yes. DisabilityMatch welcomes people with Asperger's syndrome and autism, and the people who want to date them with respect.
Is DisabilityMatch free?
Yes. Classic membership is free with no expiry: create a profile, browse members, get daily match suggestions and reply to VIP members. VIP adds unlimited messaging and costs £24.95 a month; current prices are on the pricing page.
How do I know profiles are real?
ID verification is free for every member. Verified profiles carry a Blue Tick, content is screened by automated systems and human moderators before it goes up, and you can block or report any member from their profile.
Do I need a diagnosis to join?
No. DisabilityMatch welcomes conditions that are not yet formally diagnosed as well as diagnosed ones.
Can people without a disability join?
Yes. DisabilityMatch is for disabled singles of every kind, visible and invisible, and for the people who want to date them with respect.

Meet singles who understand

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